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How do you deal with people who constantly directly & indirectly ask you to change traits about yourself - that serve you a greater purpose than they seem to understand, for instance I am a creative and this person always thinks I am too loud & opinionated
Let me start by asking you this question - Why do you create? How does it make you feel being a creative? and most IMPORTANTLY are you willing to compromise the very essence that forms you as a being? For instance you being 'loud'
I guess what I am explicitly trying to say is know yourself and love yourself enough to sometimes learn how to compromise and at the same time reject some things that do not navigate with your soul well. Set yourself on a realignment journey - ask yourself the previously mentioned questions and remember there is a reason that you are 'loud' & ironically at the very same time a creative.
I feel like I have no friends, at all. Is that normal?
First of all it is normal to feel that way but mostly when there is a certain void within you - that you have to figure out through a process of deep introspection.
The void you feel of 'thinking you need to fill by having a lot of friends' is something you’ll realize after a little while that you’re better off with fewer people close to you.
My advise to you - something I’ve done myself is figure out my social ties because not everyone can be and should be your friend - in life you’ll meet strangers, acquaintances, associates & friends. Each relationship has its own foundations and consequently expectations.
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Can one “love” with precaution?
Is it ever wise to get into a volcano streaming with hot lava? Similarly when it comes to matters of the heart - most particularly not the platonic ones, we tend to forget that love is a deep emotion & within it are pros & cons. This is when discernment & wisdom play a very pivotal role - so it may be termed as precaution but really if you look into it - it is simply not wanting to repeat the same cycles and I would like to think it is to love with intellect of both the emotional and fibers of your brain.
Discernment & Wisdom are important in all spheres - they govern you from harmful situations if you listen, so seek those for lust & infatuation have a way of ruining you if you don’t know the difference between your actions.