New Year - New Me?

What a BS statement if I am to be quite honest with the lots of you that believe in this!?

You are probably thinking 'What the hell is she thinking to say this!?' 'Does she want to lose her audience over this!?' 'She has truly lost her plot!'

Well in all honesty I might be losing my plot but hear me out! When are you going to actually be honest with yourself? When are you going to drop the ACT & masquerades of how 'evolved' & 'enlightened' you are!?

We know it is human nature to portray the very traits that are not only desirable to others but also acceptable. I mean it is a societal standard anyway to act in a certain way - dress in a certain way & be a certain somebody depending of course on the environment you are situated in - at that moment time.

So the essence and plot of this is - have you truly known yourself enough to have the guts to confidently say 'New Year - New Me' because if you were to ask my honest blunt opinion I would say - 'You are fooling yourself' Why? Change does not just come. A new you does not just blossom unless your very words & actions are in line with this 'New You'. If anything it is just a façade - a concept of yourself that is acceptable for society.

The whole basis of this article is to enlighten you with how foolish we all are when it comes to the false concepts we make of ourselves that aren't governed in honest reflection and intentional effort on working on ourselves - most particularly the toxic traits, 'shadow personalities' - traumas and flaws.

Have you really worked on yourself then? Have you confronted your traumas? Your shadow personality? The toxic traits you have and also have portrayed to others?

Each year goes by & you seem to be in the same predicament, trying hard to break these cycles - going back to the comforts of destruction & yet you proclaim yourself to be a new person - are you really?

Habits are very hard to break & one habit people make is announcing a version of themselves to the world that is not true, they announce a version of themselves that is acceptable.

I know confronting your 'ugly' is hard - painful and in some cases traumatizing but what if I told you - that version of yourself - might or may not be who you truly are and you are simply holding back living your life, your true potential by living in a façade of persona. Take some time and reflect, accept and do something about you - because the more you hide from yourself - the more you just fabricate lies, that will eventually do absolutely nothing for you.